Relation to others· Bondscoredifficulty
Partiality
Is it right to give moral priority to those close to us?
We feel we owe more to our children, our friends, our kin than to strangers; yet morality seems to demand equal regard for all. Favouring our own can slide into injustice; treating everyone alike can become inhuman. To take a position is to say whether loving one's own and being just pull the same way.
Impartialism
10Morality demands that we consider every person equally: a stranger's interests count as much as those of someone close to us. Favoring our own is a bias that moral reason must correct.
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In the reckoning of utility, each person's pleasure and pain count equally, with no privilege for oneself, one's kin or one's group: each to count for one, none for more than one. This strict impartialism, in which the agent's own well-being weighs no more than anyone else's, is one of the most characteristic and most demanding features of classical utilitarianism.
An Introduction to the Principles of Morals and Legislation, ch. IV (extent: the number of persons affected)
Utilitarianismexplicit
If only well-being counts, then the same pleasure is worth as much whoever feels it: no standpoint, neither the agent's, nor a nation's, nor a class's, holds any pre-eminence in the calculus. From this step come the formula, everybody to count for one and nobody for more than one, and the aggregation that sums individual happinesses without weighting them. This strict sets utilitarianism apart from moralities granting special weight to kin or compatriots: makes it the axiom of universal benevolence at the heart of The Methods of Ethics.
Mill, Utilitarianism, chapter 5 · Sidgwick, The Methods of Ethics
Kantexplicit
A maxim has moral worth only if I can will it to become a universal law holding for every rational being, with no exception in my favour or for those close to me. The excludes by construction any privilege granted to oneself or one's own, hence an almost pure impartialism.
Groundwork of the Metaphysics of Morals, section II
Millexplicit
In the calculus of happiness, everybody to count for one, nobody for more than one: utilitarianism demands a strict , a strictly disinterested and benevolent spectator. The agent's own happiness counts no more than a stranger's, which Mill likens to the golden rule of Jesus of Nazareth.
Utilitarianism, ch. 2 (the disinterested and benevolent spectator) · Utilitarianism, ch. 5 (each to count for one, the formula ascribed to Bentham)
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The Buddhainferable
Loving-kindness (mettā) is cultivated toward all beings without distinction: the practice taught consists in extending loving-kindness beyond loved ones, to the indifferent and then to the enemy, as a mother protects her only child. Extended to all that lives, this benevolence tilts the teaching toward a benevolent impartialism.
Karaṇīya Mettā Sutta, Sutta Nipāta 1.8 (the discourse on loving-kindness) · Dhammapada, ch. I (The Pairs)
Buddhismexplicit
Loving-kindness (mettā) and compassion (karuṇā) are cultivated toward all beings without distinction: the practice consists precisely in extending loving-kindness beyond loved ones, to the indifferent and then to the enemy. Dissolving the separate self removes the basis of partial preference, orienting Buddhism toward a benevolent impartialism.
Karaṇīya Mettā Sutta (the discourse on loving-kindness) · Dhammapada, ch. I (The Pairs)
Camusinferable
The solidarity born of holds for every humiliated man, with no privilege of proximity or belonging: the formula "I rebel, therefore we are" extends the value to all men. Rieux heals the plague-stricken indiscriminately, which leans toward impartialism, tempered by Camus's carnal rootedness in a beloved land.
The Rebel (1951) · The Plague (1947)
Stoicisminferable
Stoic cosmopolitanism implies equal concern for every rational being: since all humans share the same and form a single world-city, the in principle owes them impartial regard. Hierocles even urges drawing the circles of inward, treating the most distant as kin.
Hierocles, Elements of Ethics · Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, VII, 13
Diogenes of Sinopeinferable
Diogenes' cosmopolitanism denies any natural privilege of one's near ones: homeland, family and city being only , they ground no particular obligation that nature would recognise. Every rational being counts equally, beyond the arbitrariness of birth. The position leans toward impartiality, but stays inferred: Diogenes does not theorise duties, he dissolves conventional loyalties more than he builds a positive impartial ethics.
Diogenes Laertius, Lives, VI, 72
Epictetusinferable
Stoic cosmopolitanism grounds equal regard for every rational being, a child of the same Zeus. Yet Epictetus also stresses the particular duties attached to roles (father, son, citizen), which tempers the impartialism: an impartiality of principle lived through concrete attachments.
Discourses, II.10 · Discourses, III.24
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Concentric circles
named middle1Our concern for others spreads out in circles: intense for those close to us, it reaches, fading as it goes, all the way to strangers. Far from contradicting impartiality, this priority given to our own can follow from it: it is with them that we know and can do the most, and a world where each tends first to their own takes better care of everyone. The moral task is not to abolish these circles but to widen outward the care we feel within.
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Marcus Aureliusinferable
Cosmopolitanism grounds an equal regard for every rational being; but Marcus thinks this concern in circles, from kin to city to humankind, each carrying its own duties. He thus stands on the median position of concentric circles, neither pure impartialism nor avowed partiality.
Meditations, III, 11 · Meditations, VII, 13
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Partialism
10Our particular bonds, family, friends, community, ground legitimate special obligations. A morality that required us to treat loved ones like strangers would miss what gives moral life its meaning: concrete care for those who depend on us.
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Humaneness does not descend from an abstract principle: it grows out of the affection lived in the family and then radiates in concentric circles. Xiao (filial piety) is accordingly presented as the very root of ren 仁 (humaneness), and this is what licenses a graded favour rather than equal regard for all. The case of the son who screens his father's fault, where the master sides with family solidarity against denunciation, is the deliberate test of the thesis: to sever love from its partial, affective source would dry up morality itself, against any impartialism that claims to love strangers and kin alike.
Analects, I, 2 (filial piety, the root of humaneness) · Analects, XIII, 18 (the father screens the son, the son screens the father)
Confucianismexplicit
Real affection does not arise from an abstract principle but from the lived bond, and it is in the family that it is first learned, through filial piety (xiao), before extending outward in circles to community and world. On this rootedness depends the very possibility of a workable morality: a love claiming to embrace all people equally holds to nothing and moves no one. This is the decisive objection to the Mohists' impartial love (jian'ai): Mencius charges them with treating one's own father as a passing stranger, which amounts to abolishing humaneness itself in the name of humaneness for all. To love by degrees is not to fail the universal but to give it the only root that makes it effective.
Mencius (Mengzi), 3B9 · Confucius, Analects (Lunyu), 1.2
Antigoneexplicit
What sets her in motion is not an abstract duty toward all the dead, but a face: Polynices, her brother. From the prologue she demands to act for him, and declares she was born to share in love, not in hate. She goes further, in a famous and disputed line of reasoning: a husband or a child could be replaced, but a brother, her parents being dead, will never return, which makes this bond of blood irreplaceable and grounds the priority she grants it. However universal in form the divine law she invokes may be, she exercises it wholly for her own.
Prologue, dialogue with Ismene: the duty owed to Polynices · Second episode (l. 523): "I was born to join in love, not in hate" · Fourth episode (ll. 904-915, contested passage): a brother is irreplaceable
Odysseusexplicit
What moves Odysseus is not a duty toward humanity but attachment to his own. The world of the Odyssey is ruled by , the sacred bond of hospitality, and from it Odysseus draws a sharp dividing line between those to whom he owes everything and rewards, the swineherd , the nurse , the old dog , and those who have betrayed the house. His justice honors first of all loyalty to his own hearth.
Odyssey, XIV (the loyalty of the swineherd Eumaeus) · Odyssey, XVII, 291-327 (the old dog Argos) · Odyssey, XIX, 386-475 (the recognition by Eurycleia)
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Aristotleexplicit
Friendship (philia) is a good indispensable to the good life, and it is ordered: one owes more to one's own, parents and benefactors, than to strangers, and civic philia holds the city together. The legitimate priority given to those close to us places Aristotle on the side of partialism.
Nicomachean Ethics, VIII-IX; IX.2
Thomas Aquinasexplicit
Charity itself is ordered, Thomas argues: we ought to love all human beings, but not all equally, for the order of nature requires that we first help those close to us, parents and fellow citizens, to whom we are more tightly bound. This hierarchy of duties, grounded in real proximity, places Thomas on the side of partialism, without thereby excluding the universality in principle of love of neighbour.
Summa Theologiae, IIa-IIae, q. 26 (the order of charity)
Humeinferable
Sympathy, the source of moral approval, is by nature unequal: we feel more keenly for those near us than for the distant. Hume acknowledges this limited sympathy as a primary fact of human nature; the rules of justice and institutions serve precisely to correct the effects of this partiality, without abolishing it. The leaning is thus partialist, tempered by an artificial corrective.
A Treatise of Human Nature, III, part II, sect. 1-2 (the origin of justice, limited sympathy)
Aristotelianismexplicit
Friendship, , occupies two whole books of the and is an indispensable good of the good life: one owes more to kin, benefactors and fellow citizens. This avowed priority of particular bonds, up to the civic friendship that holds the city together, places Aristotelianism on the partialist side.
Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, VIII-IX
Romanticisminferable
To love humanity in general is a cold abstraction: it is to the near, the familiar, to what is our own that the heart goes first, and this partiality of feeling is worth more than the calculated impartiality of the . Romanticism prefers the warmth of particular bonds, the homeland, the family, friendship, to the universal and disembodied benevolence of the cosmopolitan.
Burke, Reflections on the Revolution in France · Herder, Ideas on the Philosophy of the History of Humanity
Beauvoirinferable
The ethics of ambiguity always starts from the concrete situation and from singular bonds, not from an overarching, impartial standpoint: one commits from where one is, alongside those to whom one is tied. Yet this partial anchoring opens onto the universal requirement of willing the freedom of all, which tempers the partialist leaning.
The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947), engagement from within the situation
Arguments and objections (3)
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- PrescriptiveMoral SituationThe loved one or the stranger
Two lives are in peril and only one can be saved; if all count equally, that one of the two is someone I love should make no difference: is the bond a moral reason to save one's own first, or a preference morality requires us to overcome?
the rescue
Sub-problems to deepen this axis's discussion
- PrescriptiveMoralDuties born of bonds
Do my duties to my children or my friends arise from the bond itself, which obliges by its very existence, or are they my share of a concern owed equally to everyone, because each of us watches best over our own?
the bonds - PrescriptivePolitical & legalThe conflict of interest
Loyal in friendship, devoted to one's own: what is a virtue in private life becomes favoritism and corruption once one holds an office; where does the line run between loving one's own and being unjust to everyone else?
public office - DescriptiveThe circle of sympathy
Our concern for others weakens as they grow distant from us, in space, in blood or in likeness: should morality build on this natural slope, or correct it like an inborn prejudice?
human sympathy
Related problems to broaden toward other axes
- PrescriptivePolitical & legalFrom kin to compatriots
Compatriots are strangers: does patriotism nonetheless extend to them the loyalty owed to those close to us, like an enlarged family, or is it an altogether different attachment? Where our belonging goes first is a question with its own axis.
the nation - PrescriptiveMoral Thought experimentSaving a loved one rather than a stranger
We save the one we love without hesitating; but is what makes that act good a calculation, a rule that permits it, good character, or the bond itself, which no morality should require us to justify?
an act for a loved oneCriterion of right action - PrescriptiveMoralIs the moral standpoint impartial?
Is judging morally a matter of rising to principles that hold for everyone regardless of persons, or is concrete attentiveness to those close to us the very heart of morality?
the moral standpointCriterion of right action - PrescriptiveMoral SituationThe drowning child, the starving child
Everyone grants that we must save the child drowning before our eyes, even at the cost of ruining our clothes; but if distance makes no difference to the duty, as Singer argues, why does it not extend to everyone a donation would suffice to save?
the rescueMoral demandingness
As a mother would protect her only child at the risk of her own life, so let one cultivate a boundless heart toward all beings.The Buddha · Karaṇīya Mettā Sutta (Sutta Nipāta 1.8)
Uprightness lies in this: the father screens his son, and the son screens his father.Confucius · Analects, XIII, 18