Relation to others· Bonds
Partialism
Axis: Partiality — Is it right to give moral priority to those close to us?
Our particular bonds, family, friends, community, ground legitimate special obligations. A morality that required us to treat loved ones like strangers would miss what gives moral life its meaning: concrete care for those who depend on us.
Movements 3
Confucianismexplicit
Real affection does not arise from an abstract principle but from the lived bond, and it is in the family that it is first learned, through filial piety (xiao), before extending outward in circles to community and world. On this rootedness depends the very possibility of a workable morality: a love claiming to embrace all people equally holds to nothing and moves no one. This is the decisive objection to the Mohists' impartial love (jian'ai): Mencius charges them with treating one's own father as a passing stranger, which amounts to abolishing humaneness itself in the name of humaneness for all. To love by degrees is not to fail the universal but to give it the only root that makes it effective.
Mencius (Mengzi), 3B9 · Confucius, Analects (Lunyu), 1.2
Aristotelianismexplicit
Friendship, , occupies two whole books of the and is an indispensable good of the good life: one owes more to kin, benefactors and fellow citizens. This avowed priority of particular bonds, up to the civic friendship that holds the city together, places Aristotelianism on the partialist side.
Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, VIII-IX
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Romanticisminferable
To love humanity in general is a cold abstraction: it is to the near, the familiar, to what is our own that the heart goes first, and this partiality of feeling is worth more than the calculated impartiality of the . Romanticism prefers the warmth of particular bonds, the homeland, the family, friendship, to the universal and disembodied benevolence of the cosmopolitan.
Burke, Reflections on the Revolution in France · Herder, Ideas on the Philosophy of the History of Humanity
Philosophers 5
Confuciusexplicit
Humaneness does not descend from an abstract principle: it grows out of the affection lived in the family and then radiates in concentric circles. Xiao (filial piety) is accordingly presented as the very root of ren 仁 (humaneness), and this is what licenses a graded favour rather than equal regard for all. The case of the son who screens his father's fault, where the master sides with family solidarity against denunciation, is the deliberate test of the thesis: to sever love from its partial, affective source would dry up morality itself, against any impartialism that claims to love strangers and kin alike.
Analects, I, 2 (filial piety, the root of humaneness) · Analects, XIII, 18 (the father screens the son, the son screens the father)
Aristotleexplicit
Friendship (philia) is a good indispensable to the good life, and it is ordered: one owes more to one's own, parents and benefactors, than to strangers, and civic philia holds the city together. The legitimate priority given to those close to us places Aristotle on the side of partialism.
Nicomachean Ethics, VIII-IX; IX.2
Thomas Aquinasexplicit
Charity itself is ordered, Thomas argues: we ought to love all human beings, but not all equally, for the order of nature requires that we first help those close to us, parents and fellow citizens, to whom we are more tightly bound. This hierarchy of duties, grounded in real proximity, places Thomas on the side of partialism, without thereby excluding the universality in principle of love of neighbour.
Summa Theologiae, IIa-IIae, q. 26 (the order of charity)
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Humeinferable
Sympathy, the source of moral approval, is by nature unequal: we feel more keenly for those near us than for the distant. Hume acknowledges this limited sympathy as a primary fact of human nature; the rules of justice and institutions serve precisely to correct the effects of this partiality, without abolishing it. The leaning is thus partialist, tempered by an artificial corrective.
A Treatise of Human Nature, III, part II, sect. 1-2 (the origin of justice, limited sympathy)
Beauvoirinferable
The ethics of ambiguity always starts from the concrete situation and from singular bonds, not from an overarching, impartial standpoint: one commits from where one is, alongside those to whom one is tied. Yet this partial anchoring opens onto the universal requirement of willing the freedom of all, which tempers the partialist leaning.
The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947), engagement from within the situation
Characters 2
Antigoneexplicit
What sets her in motion is not an abstract duty toward all the dead, but a face: Polynices, her brother. From the prologue she demands to act for him, and declares she was born to share in love, not in hate. She goes further, in a famous and disputed line of reasoning: a husband or a child could be replaced, but a brother, her parents being dead, will never return, which makes this bond of blood irreplaceable and grounds the priority she grants it. However universal in form the divine law she invokes may be, she exercises it wholly for her own.
Prologue, dialogue with Ismene: the duty owed to Polynices · Second episode (l. 523): "I was born to join in love, not in hate" · Fourth episode (ll. 904-915, contested passage): a brother is irreplaceable
Odysseusexplicit
What moves Odysseus is not a duty toward humanity but attachment to his own. The world of the Odyssey is ruled by , the sacred bond of hospitality, and from it Odysseus draws a sharp dividing line between those to whom he owes everything and rewards, the swineherd , the nurse , the old dog , and those who have betrayed the house. His justice honors first of all loyalty to his own hearth.
Odyssey, XIV (the loyalty of the swineherd Eumaeus) · Odyssey, XVII, 291-327 (the old dog Argos) · Odyssey, XIX, 386-475 (the recognition by Eurycleia)
Argument
- Moral life is not born in the abstract, but in concrete relationships: a mother's care, a friend's loyalty, the debt to those who raised us.
- These bonds are not arbitrary preferences; they constitute that no impartial calculation created and none can erase.
- A "morality" that treated my child like any child would have lost touch with moral life as it is lived: the that placed at the heart of virtue, or the ethics of care, attentive first to those who depend on us.
Therefore Favoring one's own is therefore not a flaw in morality: it is an essential part of it, where it takes flesh.
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- The impulse that makes me put my own first feeds, on a larger scale, nepotism, the clan spirit, the closing of the door to the outsider.
- If the bond is by itself a sufficient reason, what stops me from preferring my tribe to humanity, and shutting my door on whoever does not belong to it?
- Many injustices come not from neglecting one's own, but from the opposite excess: loyalty to one's own raised into the only law.
Therefore A partiality with no counterweight thus opens the way to the most unjust preferences, for lack of a principle to bound it.
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- You would give the last seat in the lifeboat to your child without remorse. But you would condemn the judge who acquits his son, or the official who reserves the public contract for his nephew.
- These limits, you accept: there are situations where putting your own first becomes a wrong, and you know it.
- Yet if the bond were by itself the foundation, nothing could stand against it; that you recognize limits shows that partiality answers, at bottom, to a demand for equality that goes beyond it.
Therefore The limits you place on partiality therefore show that it answers, in the last resort, to an impartial justice.
See the pageDrawing the circles inwardHabitAttested · Stoicism, Hierocles
Gradually treat the more distant as if they were nearer.
The Stoic Hierocles pictured each person at the center of a series of circles: oneself, family, close ones, fellow citizens, all of humanity. Wisdom, he said, lies in drawing these circles inward, in gradually treating the more distant as if they were nearer. This habit puts that graded into practice: everyone counts at the foundation, but care unfolds in circles, with the task of bringing them closer. Today it helps hold together the equal worth of each and the concrete priority owed to one's own.
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Tending the near bondHabitAttested · Confucianism
Care for those near you is the root from which all wider kindness grows.
For , the moral life begins not in the abstract but in care for one's own: treating parents and kin well is the root from which all wider benevolence grows. This habit gives body to these through concrete, regular gestures toward those who depend on you. Today it helps you not neglect close bonds in the name of an abstract « everyone ».
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- PrescriptiveMoral SituationThe loved one or the stranger
Two lives are in peril and only one can be saved; if all count equally, that one of the two is someone I love should make no difference: is the bond a moral reason to save one's own first, or a preference morality requires us to overcome?
the rescue - PrescriptiveMoralDuties born of bonds
Do my duties to my children or my friends arise from the bond itself, which obliges by its very existence, or are they my share of a concern owed equally to everyone, because each of us watches best over our own?
the bonds - PrescriptivePolitical & legalThe conflict of interest
Loyal in friendship, devoted to one's own: what is a virtue in private life becomes favoritism and corruption once one holds an office; where does the line run between loving one's own and being unjust to everyone else?
public office - DescriptiveThe circle of sympathy
Our concern for others weakens as they grow distant from us, in space, in blood or in likeness: should morality build on this natural slope, or correct it like an inborn prejudice?
human sympathy - PrescriptivePolitical & legalFrom kin to compatriots
Compatriots are strangers: does patriotism nonetheless extend to them the loyalty owed to those close to us, like an enlarged family, or is it an altogether different attachment? Where our belonging goes first is a question with its own axis.
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