Relation to oneself· Happiness and desirecoredifficulty
Relation to desire
What should we do with our desires: affirm them, sort them, or detach from them?
Desire is at once what sets us in motion and what torments us: to extinguish it is to extinguish life, to follow it unchecked is to forfeit peace. To take a position is to say where the drive that makes us live ends and where the servitude that wears us out begins.
Affirmation
14Desire is not a lack to be filled but a creative power to be affirmed and intensified. To restrain one's desires is to diminish oneself: the successful life says yes to what moves through it and carries it beyond itself.
Explore this position →Calliclesexplicit
Against temperance, he holds that living well means letting one's desires grow as large as possible instead of pruning them, then having the courage to fill them; unleashed without restraint is virtue itself. Socrates counters with the leaky jar, the insatiable soul no inflow can fill; Callicles embraces it, preferring the life that ceaselessly streams and refills to that of the stone, motionless and sated.
Plato, Gorgias, 491e-492c (the praise of intemperance) · Plato, Gorgias, 493a-494c (the leaky jar)
Nietzscheexplicit
Against the idea that the living first seek to preserve themselves, Nietzsche holds that every force wills to grow: this is the . The drives are therefore not to be extirpated, the castration preached by the ascetic ideal, but to be shaped: to give style to one's passions, to sublimate them in the service of a more intense life, rather than extinguish them or surrender to them.
Twilight of the Idols, "Morality as Anti-Nature" · The Gay Science, §290
Spinozaexplicit
Each thing, as a finite mode of God's power, tends to persevere in its being: this is its actual essence. Desire is therefore not a lack to be filled, against a whole Platonic tradition, but the very affirmation of our being; wisdom does not extinguish it but uses reason to select what increases the .
Ethics, III, prop. 9, scholium and definitions of the affects (desire, the essence of man) · Ethics, III, props. 6-7 (conatus)
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Camusinferable
Absurd man does not repress his desires but seeks to exhaust the possible, to multiply and intensify experiences for want of a meaning that would rank them. This affirmation of desire, close to a of intensity embodied by , sets him clearly apart from detachment, even if lucidity tempers the pure pursuit of quantity.
The Myth of Sisyphus (1942), "Don Juanism"
Romanticisminferable
Far from tempering or extinguishing desire, as Stoics and Epicureans wished, Romanticism exalts it as the very life of the soul: it is infinite aspiration, , that desire with no assignable object which carries one toward the distant, the absent, the unreachable. Dissatisfaction is not an ill to be cured but the sign of our vocation to the infinite.
Novalis, Henry of Ofterdingen · Schiller, Longing (Sehnsucht)
Beauvoirinferable
Beauvoir refuses to mutilate desire in the name of a higher order: to take up one's existence is also to take up one's passions and desires in a free project, against the abdication of the spirit of seriousness that subjects them to fixed values. Desire is neither to be extinguished nor merely sorted, but to be lucidly assumed as an impulse toward the world and toward others.
The Ethics of Ambiguity
Rousseauexplicit
Far from Stoic or Buddhist extinction, Rousseau takes desire and imagination to be the very source of the feeling of existence: one enjoys less what one possesses than what one hopes for, and happiness lies in the striving, not in full satisfaction. Yet this affirmation is not without sorting: one must follow the simple desires born of self-love and , and beware of those insatiable ones that inflates through comparison.
Rousseau, Julie, or the New Heloise, VI · Rousseau, Emile, book II
Existentialisminferable
Existentialism takes up desire and passion as part of free engagement in the world, against any morality of resignation or asceticism. Desire is neither to be extinguished nor merely disciplined: it expresses the way the existing self projects and chooses itself, to be lucidly assumed rather than fled.
Sartre, Being and Nothingness · Beauvoir, The Ethics of Ambiguity
Humeexplicit
Hume overturns the classical primacy of reason over desire: the passions are the legitimate springs of all action, which reason serves without being able to oppose them, only the calm passions tempering the violent ones. No asceticism, then, but the acceptance of desires as the primary data of life, ordered from within rather than repressed.
A Treatise of Human Nature, II, 3, 3
Marxinferable
Marx preaches neither asceticism nor mere consumption: he denounces the impoverishment of needs under capitalism, which reduces the worker to survival and makes having the only desire. Emancipation aims instead at the free development of human needs and powers, the individual rich in manifold, cultivated desires, an affirmation of desire as a wealth to be won collectively.
Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts of 1844 · Grundrisse
Sartreinferable
For Sartre, desire is not an accident to be corrected but the way the for-itself, a lack of being, throws itself toward the world and toward others: freedom is experienced in desiring engagement, to be assumed rather than fled. The analysis of Being and Nothingness nonetheless marks it with a tragic note, the desire to coincide at last with oneself being a useless passion.
Being and Nothingness, IV
Marxisminferable
Marxism rejects both asceticism and mere consumption: it denounces the mutilation of needs under capitalism and makes emancipation the free development of human needs and powers. Desire, far from an evil, is a wealth to be unfolded collectively, once the conditions that reduce it to survival or to having are abolished.
Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts of 1844 · Marx, Grundrisse
Benthamexplicit
Bentham expressly rejects the principle of asceticism, which would hold privation to be a good: pleasure is the only good, pain the only evil, and the end is to maximize the former. Desires are therefore not to be extinguished but satisfied; the only legitimate sorting is the calculation of the quantities of pleasure and pain they produce.
Introduction to the Principles of Morals and Legislation, I-IV
Leibnizinferable
Against Locke, Leibniz makes uneasiness, the muffled push of the small appetitions, the permanent spring of action and the engine of our advance toward greater perfection. Desire is no evil to be repressed but a positive force, provided it is enlightened and ordered toward the true good by the understanding: affirmation and reasoned sorting balance out in him.
New Essays on Human Understanding, II, 20-21
Arguments and objections (3)
Reasoned selection
16Not all desires are equal: some are natural and necessary, others empty and a source of turmoil. Wisdom consists in examining them lucidly, satisfying the former and dismissing the latter, so as to reach stable contentment.
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Unhappiness comes from desires one cannot fulfil, or whose satisfaction soothes nothing: the therapy is therefore to sort desires by whether they are grounded in nature and necessary to happiness. The natural and necessary desires, few in number, are easily met; the empty desires, born of a limitless opinion such as glory or wealth, are insatiable and yield only disturbance. Wisdom thus neither suppresses desire wholesale, against Cynic asceticism, nor frees it from all bounds: it schools it, confining what one should want to what nature demands and makes easy. This is a that brings happiness within everyone's reach.
Letter to Menoeceus, 127-130 · Principal Doctrines, XXIX and XXX (the classification of desires)
Lucretiusexplicit
Disturbance comes from boundless desires that nature does not demand: the greed for wealth and honours, fanned by the fear of death, throws men into an endless race. The cure lies in knowing the limit nature sets to pleasure, little being enough to keep pain away; beyond that, empty desire only feeds anxiety. Taking up the Epicurean sorting of desires, Lucretius makes of it the spring of a biting critique of Roman ambition and luxury. This is a of desire according to nature.
On the Nature of Things, II, 1-61 (empty terrors and measureless desires) · On the Nature of Things, III, 59-93 (greed and ambition born of the fear of death)
Epicureanismexplicit
If suffering springs chiefly from thwarted desires, it is their object that must be examined: a natural and necessary desire (food, shelter, freedom from fear) has a limit and is easily filled, whereas a vain desire (wealth, glory) is by nature unlimited and never quieted, for it rests on a false opinion. Wisdom therefore consists in selecting the first and extinguishing the rest: not by renunciation, but because the reckoning shows that necessary goods are easy to obtain and that pursuing the unlimited is to doom oneself to disturbance. Where the Stoic suspends every desire for an external object, the Epicurean keeps a part of it, the part that bounds need, and through this sorting attains .
Epicurus, Letter to Menoeceus, 127-128 · Epicurus, Principal Doctrines, XXIX
Aristotleexplicit
Aristotle does not repress desire but orders it: appetite (orexis) must obey practical reason as a child lives according to its father's command. The virtue of temperance aims at the , desiring what one ought, when and as one ought, neither asceticism nor unbridled affirmation but a reasoned selection of desires.
Nicomachean Ethics, III.11-12; I.13 (1102b)
Odysseusexplicit
Odysseus neither represses his desires nor becomes their slave: he governs them by calculation. Warned of the Sirens' deadly song, he does not stop his ears like his men but has himself bound to the mast to hear it without yielding, satisfying the desire to know while stripping himself in advance of the power to succumb. Not asceticism, not excess, but an economy of desire ruled by the end.
Odyssey, XII, 39-54, 158-200 (the Sirens and the binding to the mast)
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Aristotelianismexplicit
Desire is neither to be affirmed without restraint nor extinguished, but ordered by practical reason: the consists in desiring what one ought, when and as one ought. The temperate person has not abolished appetite but brought it into accord with deliberate choice, yielding a reasoned selection of desires rather than detachment or sheer affirmation.
Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, III, 10-12
Thomas Aquinasinferable
Thomas does not condemn desire: the passions and appetites are good in themselves, willed by God, and the virtue of temperance does not extinguish them but orders them according to reason, after the manner of the Aristotelian . Reasoned selection therefore prevails, but it is ordered to an ultimate end: every finite desire is only the sign of a natural desire for God, alone able to still it, which inflects the balance without lapsing into detachment.
Summa Theologiae, Ia-IIae, q. 22-48 (the passions); IIa-IIae, q. 141
Confuciusexplicit
Confucianism does not condemn desire but civilizes it through the rites and the sense of propriety: one satisfies one's inclinations in the right forms and to the right measure. The ideal is the perfect accord of desire and norm, which Confucius says he reached only at the end of a long self-cultivation.
Analects (Lunyu), II.4 and XII.1
Confucianismexplicit
Confucianism civilizes desire through the rites and propriety rather than extinguishing it or affirming it without restraint: one satisfies one's inclinations in the right forms and to the right measure. Moral education aims at the accord of desire and norm, where propriety becomes second nature and the good is done without constraint.
Analects (Lunyu), II.4 and XII.1 · Xunzi (on rites and desires)
Lockeexplicit
Locke makes desire an uneasiness, the goad that moves action toward what is lacking. But a person has the power to suspend the pursuit of a desire in order to examine it and judge whether it leads to the true good: freedom lies in this reflective delay, which sorts desires instead of following them blindly, without for all that extinguishing them.
Essay concerning Human Understanding, II, 21
Millexplicit
Mill corrects Bentham's hedonism with a qualitative hierarchy: not all desires and pleasures are equal, those that engage the higher faculties are worthier than those of the body. The sorting no longer bears on quantity alone but on the quality of pleasures, against a background that affirms satisfaction as the end of life.
Utilitarianism, ch. II
Socratesinferable
Master of his appetites, able to bear cold, hunger and wine without giving in, Socrates embodies enkrateia, self-mastery through reason. He neither abolishes desire as the ascetics will, nor celebrates it: he submits it to reason's sorting, holding good only what serves the soul. Reduced need is for him a strength, not a deprivation.
Xenophon, Memorabilia, I, 2-3; I, 5 (self-mastery) · Plato, Symposium, 219b-220a (Socrates impervious to cold and wine)
Empiricisminferable
Empiricism holds the passions and desires to be the natural springs of action, to be understood as facts rather than condemned. Far from asceticism, the point is to satisfy and to govern them through experience and judgment, which distinguish desires by their effects: a naturalistic affirmation tempered by a prudent sorting.
Hume, A Treatise of Human Nature, II · Locke, Essay concerning Human Understanding, II, 21
Pragmatisminferable
Pragmatism naturalizes desire: far from opposing it to reason, Dewey sees in it the spring of value, the interest that moves inquiry and orients conduct. Desire is neither to be extinguished nor followed as is, but to be educated by intelligence, which turns it into a reflective end: an affirmation of desire ordered by its practical examination.
Dewey, The Quest for Certainty · Dewey, Theory of Valuation
Utilitarianismexplicit
Utilitarianism takes as its end the satisfaction of desires insofar as they produce pleasure, and rejects asceticism as contrary to happiness. But it sorts: by the calculation of quantities in Bentham, by the qualitative hierarchy of pleasures in Mill. An affirmation of pleasure, then, ordered by a rational sorting of desires according to their effects.
Bentham, Principles of Morals and Legislation · Mill, Utilitarianism
Descartesexplicit
Descartes holds the passions to be useful when well governed: the point is neither to suppress nor to follow them, but to make the soul their master through judgment and a firm will. Stoic in inspiration, his provisional morality bounds the will to what depends on us and counsels changing one's desires rather than the order of the world. Yet he joins to this the affirmation of a desire guided by reason: virtue lies in resolutely doing what one judges best, the source of an inner contentment even in failure. Detachment, sorting and affirmation balance out in him.
Discourse on Method, III · The Passions of the Soul, arts. 144-148 and 211-212
Arguments and objections (3)
Extinction and detachment
22Desire is the root of dependence and suffering: it binds us to what is beyond our control. The path to serenity lies in detachment, even in the extinction of desire itself, so as no longer to be enslaved by what escapes us.
Explore this position →The Buddhaexplicit
If all suffering is conditioned, it has a locatable cause, and to remove the cause is to remove the effect: this is the logic of applied to dis-ease. Gautama then traces the chain back and names as that link, the grasping thirst that clings to pleasures, to existence, or even to non-existence and sets the wheel of rebirth turning again. The move is original: he neither moralizes desire as a vice nor celebrates it as fullness, but coolly identifies it as the cause to be extinguished, which puts detachment at the centre of the path and guarantees, against any fatalism, that release is possible.
Dhammacakkappavattana Sutta, Saṃyutta Nikāya 56.11 (the sermon at Benares) · Dhammapada, ch. XXIV (Craving)
Buddhismexplicit
If suffering has a locatable cause, it can be removed by addressing that cause: through , the second Noble Truth traces suffering back to , the grasping thirst that clings to pleasures, to existence, or to non-existence and keeps the wheel of rebirth turning. It follows that liberation requires neither satisfying desire nor forcibly repressing it, but extinguishing its root, the thirst itself: Buddhism thus falls squarely on the side of detachment, not from contempt for pleasure but because craving is the very engine of dis-ease.
Dhammacakkappavattana Sutta (the sermon at Benares) · Dhammapada, ch. XXIV (Craving)
Schopenhauerexplicit
To will is to lack: every desire springs from a painful privation, and its satisfaction, purely negative, falls at once into a new desire or into , which lays bare the emptiness of existence the moment nothing occupies it. The wheel of stops for an instant only in disinterested contemplation, and is broken only in the denial of the will; to those who cannot renounce, the Aphorisms concede no more than a prudent economy of desire.
The World as Will and Representation, §57
Stoicismexplicit
The discipline of desire demands desiring only what is and consenting to the rest: desires for external things are to be suspended, even extinguished. Epictetus advises not to ask that things happen as you wish, but to wish them as they happen.
Epictetus, Enchiridion, §8
Vedānta (Advaita)explicit
The path of knowledge presupposes detachment (vairāgya): so long as the subject desires the objects of the empirical world, it remains caught in and in identification with body and mind. Advaita prescribes renunciation (saṃnyāsa) and discrimination (viveka) between the eternal and the perishable, so as to turn desire toward liberation alone. Desire for external things is to be extinguished.
Śaṅkara (attributed), Vivekacūḍāmaṇi · Kaṭha Upaniṣad, I, 2-3
Diogenes of Sinopeexplicit
The less one desires, the freer one is: the desire for external things is the very chain by which the world holds us. consists in training oneself to need nothing, so that nothing can be lacking or enslaving. Diogenes does not aim at a reasoned sorting of pleasures in the manner of Epicurus, but at a reduction of desire to the strictly natural, detached from all the rest. The tendency is toward the extinction of factitious desires, not their affirmation.
Diogenes Laertius, Lives, VI, 105
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Śaṅkaraexplicit
Desire for objects binds one to , the cycle of rebirths: it arises from the ignorance that takes the self for the body and chases after what it lacks. Among the conditions of knowledge, Śaṅkara places renunciation (vairāgya) of the fruits of action, here and hereafter, and the ardent quest for liberation alone. The slope is clearly that of detachment: not because pleasure would be culpable, but because every desire turned toward the manifold misses the one real and the only stable good. A sorting remains in the background, the desire for liberation (mumukṣutva) being itself cultivated, but as a desire meant to extinguish once its end is reached.
Commentary on the Brahma Sūtras, I.1.1 (the fourfold prerequisite) · Commentary on the Bhagavad Gītā
Taoismexplicit
Refined desires arise not from need but from the artifice that manufactures them: it is the five colors, the five flavors and the craving for rare goods that blind the eye and lead the heart astray, so that multiplying desirable objects never fills the lack but hollows it. The pursuit of wealth and honors scatters the mind and draws it away from : the remedy is not to satisfy desire better but to dry it at its source, returning to pu 樸 (simplicity, the uncarved block of wood). Thus no misfortune, for Laozi, is worse than not knowing when one has enough: the contentment of one who desires little is a wealth that nothing external can threaten.
Laozi, Dao De Jing, ch. 12, 46 · Laozi, Dao De Jing, ch. 19
Epictetusexplicit
Desire and aversion aim at attaining or avoiding: directed at what is not up to us, they doom us to miss our aim and to suffer what we flee, hence to unhappiness. The first of the three disciplines, that of desire, is to withdraw them from everything external so as to desire only what is in our power, until progress makes desire safe. For the beginner Epictetus goes so far as to recommend suspending desire altogether and using only aversion, and that solely toward what depends on us. A reasoned sorting of the preferred remains in the background, but the lived tendency is detachment from all that fortune can take back.
Enchiridion, §2 · Enchiridion, §8
Laoziexplicit
It is not needs that trouble us but the desires manufactured by craving: "the five colors blind the eye." Wisdom lies in diminishing desires and being content, for "to know contentment is true wealth" and "no disaster is worse than not knowing what is enough." The detachment aims less at a extinction of desire than at a return to the : to fill the belly, not the craving eye.
Dao De Jing, ch. 12 and 19 · Dao De Jing, ch. 33, 44 and 46
Marcus Aureliusexplicit
Desire fixed on what is not up to us tears the soul from its nature and gives it over to disturbance; it must be withdrawn from externals and consent given to the course of things. A reasoned of the preferable remains, so that the point is less to extinguish all desire than to redirect it toward the one true good.
Meditations, II, 16 · Meditations, III, 6 · Meditations, XI, 16
Senecaexplicit
Happiness comes from limiting desire to necessary and natural goods. Seneca preaches detachment from fortune and superfluous goods, while granting a of preferred indifferents, which may be welcomed without attachment.
Letters to Lucilius, II (only the one who craves more is poor) · Letters to Lucilius, XVI and CX (natural and necessary desires)
Platoexplicit
The appetites form the lowest part of the soul and must be mastered and curtailed under reason's guidance, for a soul given over to its desires becomes a "leaky jar" that nothing can fill. Plato preaches not the extinction of desire but its redirection: sublimated erōs becomes the drive that carries the soul toward the Beautiful and the Good.
Gorgias, 493a-494a · Republic, IX, 571a-580a
Nāgārjunainferable
Nāgārjuna takes up the Buddhist diagnosis: and appropriation feed the cycle of rebirth. But he illuminates its root: one clings because one ascribes to objects an ; seeing their loosens attachment at its source. The path remains one of detachment, here grounded in metaphysical lucidity.
Mūlamadhyamakakārikā (Fundamental Verses on the Middle Way), ch. XXIII (the examination of errors) · Mūlamadhyamakakārikā, ch. XXVI (the examination of the twelve links of existence)
Plotinusinferable
Desire turned toward sensible things disperses the soul and chains it to the manifold; wisdom demands withdrawing it so as to redirect it wholly upward. Plotinus does not abolish the desiring drive but converts it into an for the intelligible and the One: the soul finds rest only by ceasing to desire what is beneath it. The lived tendency is therefore detachment from the sensible, more austere still than in .
Enneads, III, 5 (On Love) · Enneads, VI, 7, 22-35
Cynicismexplicit
The Cynic reduces desire to the strictly natural and detaches himself from all the rest: the less one desires, the freer one is. consists precisely in training oneself to want nothing more from external things, so that nothing can be lacking or enslaving.
Diogenes Laertius, Lives, VI, 105
Skepticisminferable
By ceasing to hold anything good or bad by nature, the skeptic frees himself from the vehement desires and aversions that disturb the soul. He feels only the unavoidable affections (hunger, thirst) and meets them with measure: a discipline of detachment, akin to that of the other schools, but grounded in the suspension of judgment rather than in a doctrine of the good.
Sextus Empiricus, Outlines of Pyrrhonism, I, 25-30
Pyrrhoinferable
If nothing is good or bad by nature, then no object deserves to be pursued or feared: Pyrrho draws from this an (adiaphoria) toward things, the lived spring of his detachment. Where sorts desires into the necessary and the empty, Pyrrho does not sort: it is the value judgment itself that he withdraws, which defuses desire at its root rather than ordering it. Tradition credits the sage with such evenness of soul that nothing moves him, yet without advocating an ascetic extinction: he lives by what appears, hunger, thirst, customs, without attaching to them as goods.
Diogenes Laertius, Lives of the Philosophers, IX, 61-66 · Cicero, On Moral Ends, II, 35 and IV, 43
Sextus Empiricusinferable
The torment of desire comes, for Sextus, from holding certain objects to be good or bad by nature: one pursues or flees them with vehemence, and is disturbed. By suspending this value judgment one is freed from anxious pursuit, without aiming at the complete Stoic extinction of feeling. The skeptic keeps the natural inclinations, hunger, thirst, and answers them with measure: a detachment from supposed goods, tempered by acceptance of the unavoidable affections, which holds him a little short of strict asceticism.
Outlines of Pyrrhonism, I, 25-30 · Outlines of Pyrrhonism, III, 235-238
Kantexplicit
Inclinations are not evil in themselves, but they cannot ground moral worth: an action has value only when done from duty, independently of any inclination. This moral disinterestedness requires that the will make itself autonomous with regard to desire, acting against it where need be; without preaching the extinction of inclinations, Kant keeps a distance from them that leans toward detachment more than toward their eudaimonist sorting.
Groundwork of the Metaphysics of Morals, I-II · Critique of Practical Reason
Platonismexplicit
Platonism orders the soul in three tiers, where reason must govern the appetites with the help of spirit: left to themselves, the desires of the body enslave and trouble. Wisdom consists in mastering them and in sublimating eros, in turning its force away from the sensible toward intelligible Beauty and the Good. A severe sorting of desires, then, leaning toward their transcendence more than their satisfaction.
Plato, Republic, IV and IX · Plato, Symposium; Phaedrus
Zhuangziinferable
Zhuangzi does not preach the extinction of desire as a discipline, but the lightening of the craving soul that clutches at gains, ranks and duration. The sage (xinzhai), empties himself of his preferences so as to espouse whatever comes, without however mortifying the body or condemning the simple joys he gladly celebrates. The leaning is toward detachment, but a playful detachment that lets desires pass like clouds rather than tearing them out, which sets him apart from Stoic asceticism as much as from the affirmation of desire.
Zhuangzi, ch. 4 (the fasting of the heart) · Zhuangzi, ch. 6 (The Great Source as Teacher)
Arguments and objections (3)
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- PracticalVital SituationThe desire that destroys us
A desire we know to be harmful returns despite every decision against it: should we affirm it as part of ourselves, dismiss it as a stray impulse, or admit that we do not really govern our desires at all?
a harmful desire
Sub-problems to deepen this axis's discussion
- DescriptiveLack or power
Is desiring a matter of lacking what one does not have, and so suffering an emptiness to be filled, or is it the overflow of a power that creates? On the answer hangs whether desire should be quieted or intensified.
desire - PrescriptiveVitalThe insatiable nature of desire
Every satisfied desire is reborn or gives way to another, and the pleasure subsides at once: can satisfying our desires ever fulfil us, or has desire no end, so that the only way out is to step outside it?
satisfying a desire - DescriptiveAre my desires my own?
Do my desires arise from me, or do I desire what others desire, what society manufactures for me? If they are not my own, affirming or sorting them takes on a different meaning.
the origin of desire - PrescriptiveVitalThe hierarchy of desires
Are there higher and lower desires, with some part of us meant to govern the rest, or is this ranking merely a morality imposed on a life that asks for none?
the ordering of desires
Related problems to broaden toward other axes
- DescriptiveDoing as one pleases, or governing oneself?
Is being free to do what one feels like in the moment, or to govern oneself, at the risk that whoever follows their every desire becomes its slave?
the law one gives oneselfFreedom of the will - PrescriptiveVitalEnjoyment or tranquillity
Is the highest good to enjoy as much as possible, or to free oneself from disturbance and pain, even at the cost of desiring only what is necessary?
a lifeThe highest good
At seventy, I could follow my heart's desire without overstepping the line.Confucius · Analects, II.4
So life swings like a pendulum, back and forth, between pain and boredom.Schopenhauer · The World as Will and Representation, §57
It is not the man who has little, but the one who craves more, that is poor.Seneca · Letters to Lucilius, II
It is better to be a human being dissatisfied than a pig satisfied; better to be Socrates dissatisfied than a fool satisfied.Mill · Utilitarianism, ch. 2
Reason is, and ought only to be, the slave of the passions.Hume · A Treatise of Human Nature, II, 3, 3
Desire is the very essence of man, insofar as it is conceived as determined to do something by a given affection of itself.Spinoza · Ethics, III, definitions of the affects, def. 1
Woe to him who has nothing left to desire! He loses, as it were, all that he possesses.Rousseau · Julie, or the New Heloise, VI
Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a tranquil flow of life.Epictetus · Enchiridion, §8
Of the desires, some are natural and necessary, some natural but not necessary, and some neither natural nor necessary but arising from empty opinion.Epicurus · Principal Doctrines, XXIX
To strive always to master myself rather than fortune, and to change my desires rather than the order of the world.Descartes · Discourse on Method, III
This is the noble truth of the origin of suffering: it is this craving which leads to renewed existence.The Buddha · Dhammacakkappavattana Sutta (Saṃyutta Nikāya 56.11)