Relation to others· Bonds
Ruse of the species
Axis: Nature of love — What lies at the heart of love: a lack, a gift, or something else?
Love is an illusion through which nature manipulates us: beneath the most exalted feeling operates . The individual believes they choose freely, when in fact they serve ends beyond themselves.
Who holds this position
Philosophers 1
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The Metaphysics of Sexual Love, whose novelty he proudly claims, unmasks in passion the ruse of the : the illusion by which the genius of the species makes the individual, thinking he pursues his own happiness, serve the making of the next generation. Love as charity, for its part, belongs to compassion, and eros as lack is traced back to suffering.
The World as Will and Representation, vol. II, ch. 44, 'The Metaphysics of Sexual Love'
Foundations and implications