← All practices

RuleAttested · Montaigne

The foreign gaze

Each calls barbaric what is not of his own custom.

Reflecting on the so-called "savages" of the New World, noticed that "each man calls barbarism whatever is not his own custom" (Of Cannibals). Before you let your reflex of disgust pass for a moral verdict, turn the gaze around: ask how your own would look to that other eye. The point is to tell a real wrong from mere unfamiliarity, so that "it's not how we do it" stops counting as "it's wrong".

Unlock the practices

The step-by-step routine is part of Premium access: a modest contribution that supports and encourages the development of Philoscopia. Everything encyclopedic stays free and open source — this only opens the actionable practices.

Discover Premium access

Already unlocked on another device? Sign in to restore it.

Enacts

Source: Montaigne